Corinne, Utah
12 January 1948
Dear Clinton and Rhea,
This is Father’s birthday, 120 years since he was born. What a lot has happened since then! The first railroad operated in England in 1820; there were very few newspapers; education was very limited; telephone and electric service had not begun.
One hundred years ago the young fellows in his neighborhood usually gathered evenings in the pub (beer shop) not to drink but to get the news as it was passed along by word of mouth. These lads were Rob’t. Daines, Elijah Seamons, Jas. Hurren, John Bals, Wm. Hammond, Geo. B. Reeder and several others. As they heard the tales of adventure and exploration and sea voyages by sailing vessels, they were stirred with anxious feelings.
One winter evening Father was visiting at a neighbor’s home when two Mormon Elders called to spend the evening. He was as (sic) interested listener. When it was time to go home he arose and shook hands with the elders and said, “I have listened to all your remarks and I now tell you I believe every thing (sic) you have said.” Well, he and Jas Hurren (his brother-in-law) were baptized in June 1851 in the pond on Chediston Green. They were the first Mormon converts in that district. Soon others were baptized and branches of the church were organized. Things began to happen in that same section where the Pilgrim fathers had also been stirred 200 years previously. (I think our record of achievements has gone much farther than the Pilgrims did in their first century on American soil.).
When these lads became enthusiastic their buddy, Wm Hammond, said, “the religion of my parents is good enough for me.” Thus he remained at his old home in Chediston. I saw him when I was there in 1907. He had become an old man and seemed quite lonely. He said he had never been so far from home but what he could always see the smoke of his chimney. He showed the little ten acre plot of land he had farmed all his life. The old home was old-fashioned with thatched roof and brick floor, small windows, and small rooms; it was not inviting. It seemed to me he had missed a lot in life and I felt proud of Father’s great achievements in spite of his lack of schooling. Now his posterity are very numerous. Ninety years ago last April he was married in Brigham and now I count 150 families descended from him. He was not only a good man himself, but had implanted in his posterity many of the fine manly characteristics he developed in his own lifetime. He used to say, “if a man’s work isn’t any good, neither is his bond.”
When prohibition was first advocated he said, “I suppose it’s a fine thing to re-inforce the week fellow by removing the temptation, but I like to see the man who has the spinal fortitude to go where he should and resist those things that destroy his courage.” Most of his posterity are people of good habits and live clean lives. It seems to me a great asset to bequeath to posterity.
When each of the six missionaries now out complete two years it will make 72 years of service in the cause of the true gospel. They have all served without pay and I doubt if another like situation could ever be found in all the generations that have preceded our day.
When Father and I were coming or going to work, if we saw a neighbor’s irrigation dam broken or a gate open he often said, “do unto others as you have them do unto you,” and he would always stop to correct the situation. I was just a growing boy and these things seemed trivial to me at the time, but as the years speed by, I am now convinced that it’s the little things in life that effect our future and make or tear down our character.
The Church doesn’t need us nearly so much as we need the Church. It could get along without us and we’d never be missed in it’s (sic) program, but it’s extensive program is intended to lead us to exaltation. The Gospel is a combination of two words, Gods-spell. It is the story of God and how He became exalted to become our Eternal Father. The Church prescribes the program of life to direct our way and our attitude. It (sic) we get a bump and become sour, our progress is much hindered. Or if we become addicted to destructive habits, we are putting on the brakes.
I am happy to see so many fine people who have grown up without serious sin unto salvation. It bids us all to be on our toes all the time. If we get on to a detour, we lose our place in the caravan along the highway of life. Occasionally we see people who have been active and have become interested in other programs, which are the same as detours. They are described in the Book of Mormon story of the Iron Rod. There are those who lose their way in the darkness and they hunt until they find in (sic) again. Others fall into deeper darkness and are lost.
It seems as though we have to be on our guard all the time; as Father said, “the race is not to the swift or the battle to the strong but to those that endure to the end.”
The memory of him becomes more dear to me each day. I cherish his remark, “you know, if I was having a woman made to order, I don’t know how I’d improve on your mother.” It was her birthday yesterday (11 January) and she would have been 100 years old. My parents were truly grand folks.
I loved to hear Mother pray. She had no schooling, but in her simple speech, she surely knew how to talk to the Lord and he understood her language. There were power and sublime faith in her prayers. During their later years when the missionary letter came to our home, some one of the family always read the latter (sic) aloud for the benefit of Father and Mother. The tears that usually flowed down their cheeks were tears of joy and appreciation. They were happy beyond expression. They surely knew the fundamentals of life even though their education was received in the school of experience.
I have always felt a deep appreciation of the fine attitude of Father’s children whose mother had died before I was born. I have seen these brothers and sister draw near to Mother Carline and confide in her with all the love and respect any mother could desire. I have seen her arm around them and her tears of tenderness go out to them in love and fellowship. No wonder Father paid her the great tribute.
To me there are no half-brothers or sisters in our Reeder family. We are all Father’s children and bear his name. The same love and devotion shown by our parents should always direct us in our association with each other although we may differ in our views at times. We are all different in our nature and our ideas may differ but we should all cultivate the love and respect shown by our parents.
Father once said, “my children are all different, but each one has a quality peculiar to himself and I respect and live them all regardless.”
When I go into the great beyond, I expect to meet Father with Aunt Mary on his right and Mother Carline on his left. I expect them to greet me as a unit and I rather expect it shall be a happy and cheerful greeting. At least I hope so. Then all the brothers and sisters who have preceded me will, in their turn, be in the receiving line. I am happy in the contemplation of a joyous occasion and a great family reunion each time one departs. I feel that it is very fitting to hole such a joyous gathering when each missionary departs to go into the world to carry the message of light and truth to a world struggling to find a better way of life. We should be as appreciative as we are of those first elders who called at the neighbor’s home in Suffolk in January 1851.
May the peace of heaven attend all who may read the feelings I have on Mother’s one hundredth anniversary, January 12, 1948. I think keenly of their journey across the plains in a forbidding wasteland; Father driving an ox team in 1853 and mother walking the entire distance in 1860.
Love to all, Adolph M. Reeder
I wrote this to one of our missionaries and decided we have a lot of young relatives who are not acquainted with my parents, so I got Ray to run off a lot of copies.
Keep in your memory book.